Life is hard but it gets harder without the people we love and care for. Many often we don’t have a hold on the circumstances and a minor crack in a relationship can cause a catastrophe in life. Some relationships need relatively more love, care and attention and when any of the above hits below the satiety point, it’s the beginning of the uncalled end. That’s when we should assess and try to rebond rather than going for a rebound.
Every relationship no matter how strong is tied to a knot which can break while taking back-to-back blows. The breaking of the knot is however not the issue, the issue is not tying it back again with all your heart. Relationships where fights, arguments and disagreements are common, must be anchored by immense love and care as only these can heal wounds of many kinds. For this generation, I can say, It is an art to hold onto people and not letting them go easily.
Though it is vital to move ahead in life when it gets toxic but some people potentially can filter that and bring it back to its natural form. We live in an environment where insecurities trigger very quickly and get in the way of the natural healing process eventually resulting in a missing of hope from all the sides involved.
Rebond is real and an unhurried process but it definitely shows how you can forget and forgive things about someone or even about yourself and be giving again towards the people. We hear people everywhere on social media screaming about moving on from relationships and I think that has somewhere taken our power to reinvest in a bond that really meant something or everything to us.
What we do is instantly look for a rebound without computing how much reconstruction can still be done after taking an “X” amount of time wiping our tears. It’s not that we don’t try, we just don’t try hard enough. In my point of view, the rebound is just a yearning for attention only to fill the void generated. Rebound is vulnerable but also victorious sometimes and so is rebond. It’s obviously your choice to make but I humbly request you all to always try choosing to rebond in the first place and rebound then after. Do what functions right for you.
Its literally “U” standing between both the selections. Be wise about what comes first. Rebond not Rebound
Cheers!